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To Saree Or Not To Saree

To Saree Or Not To Saree

Sabyasachi Mukherjee Saree
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The well-known and much-admired celebrity designer Sabyasachi Mukherjee created a rumpus on various social media portals, all thanks to his insensitive comment about the younger generation for giving a preference to western attires over the traditional saree.

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While addressing Indian students at the Harvard India Conference, Sabyasachi had said while answering a question, “I think, if you tell me that you do not know how to wear a saree, I would say shame on you. It’s a part of your culture, (you) need stand up for it.”

Well, this obviously didn’t go down well with people and the result was a furious backlash on Twitter that defended the Indian woman’s liberty of choice of clothes.

But come to think of it, he is known to be the best designer when it comes to sarees. We all have drooled over his art of weaving magical drapes. From creating the best ensemble for the Virushka wedding to dolling up divas such as Deepika, Kangna, Sri Devi and so on, he has done it all.

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But then why such an insensitive comment!!

After all this fiasco, Sabyasachi finally broke his silence and redeemed himself by writing an open apology letter and repenting the hurt feelings of Indian women across the world.

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Now I have worked with the sari for 16 years. During this time, I have had countless open dialogues in various forums pan-India with women of all age groups and income brackets about the constant barrage of negativity surrounding it. Yet another question of ageism and the sari at Harvard triggered a lot of pent-up frustration that I have accrued for that segment of our society which constantly expresses disdain for this piece of Indian heritage. It is this frustration that I unfortunately generalised to Indian women in response to the question, when I now see that I should have framed it as a call to stop shaming the sari and whomever chooses to wear it. I am passionate about textiles and our heritage, and I am sorry that in the heat of that moment, I allowed this passion to be misplaced. I take full responsibility for this. On the topic of the sari, I ask you today: how many times have you or someone you know encountered this issue? Body shaming, attaching connotations of ‘Auntie Ji’, calling them sloppy; these are all ways that some men and women alike belittle the sari (and, more accurately, the wearer of the sari). These comments are laced with sarcasm and connotations of cultural repression and backwardness. Many women, young and old, are scared to have an outing in a sari because it is shrouded in so many layers of taboo and controversy, often citing inability to correctly drape a sari as an exit point. We are a celebrity-obsessed country, and yes, it does affect consumption patterns and social behaviour at-large. Some consumers are being conditioned to believe that the sari ages women, and you will see the evidence of that clearly documented by so many social media trolls targeting celebrities online. Isn’t that shaming, or shall we call it cyber-bullying? Yet we are often complicit in this, which may even be welcomed by some to encourage more traffic to a website/blog. #Sabyasachi #TheWorldOfSabyasachi

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Let’s also talk about another subject that has arisen out of the fervent discussions occurring about me and my brand, and one that has always been a big topic on gender inequality and the patriarchy (which, according to some of you, I am ardently supporting): the pay gap. It is humiliating to have to defend yourself in public but sometimes a bitter medicine needs to be swallowed to drive home a hidden truth. I would like to bring to your notice, that the majority of my staff at Sabyasachi Couture are women. From pattern makers, to seamstresses, to designers, to publicists, to IT consultants, department heads, store managers, and core of management; women comprise the top earners on my payroll – and it is not because they are women, but because they’ve earned it by their merit. And every Friday, men and women alike at Sabyasachi wear Indian clothing to celebrate our love for textiles, with zero enforcement. Mine is a women-oriented brand and I owe my complete success to them. I have always, and will continue to love and respect women irrespective of the labels recently assigned to me. It was in this spirit that I started my brand, and that is how it shall remain till the day we decide to shut its doors. I once again apologise for the distress caused by the words I used, but not for the intent, which often takes a back seat when slammed by controversy. My intent was to call out those women who proudly proclaim that they don’t wear saris and simultaneously shame others who wear saris by saying it makes them look older, backward, or culturally repressed. My social media team takes extreme care that not a single negative comment written by you is censored, so that the world can make their own judgments and have a transparent view of the brand. Tomorrow, you can shame me further on twitter, make provocative headlines out of this letter, or choose to blacklist us as consumers. It is absolutely fair and understandable because it is your prerogative. For us, for better or for worse, it will be business as usual. #Sabyasachi #TheWorldOfSabyasachi

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Thanks, Sabya for the clarification!!

But we can only say that instead of shaming the women who don’t wear sarees, you should have maybe spoken about the concept of “saree shaming” and let the world know that just because a woman chooses to drape a saree she is not old-fashioned or an aunty. It would have surely protected us all of all this unpleasantness and you wouldn’t have had to write a three-part letter expressing your intent and slip-up of picking the wrong word.

Sabyasachi Mukherjee Saree

Well, now that Sabyasachi has realized his mistake “It’s back to business as usual” just like he wrote at the end of his letter. 

Jasleen Kaur

 

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